When we talk about the matters of approaching women, or how to approach women, we often come up with the skill of conversation being integral to the skill of how to approach women successfully.
I've always praised at my ability to strike up conversation with anybody at any time about any topic - even when there is supposedly "nothing to talk about". It's a talent I have and in this article I will tell you the SIMPLE trick to my success.
The best way to trigger a conversation is to ask questions. Too easy? Well, let me describe.
What do you ask questions regarding?
Well, I always just ask questions about anything I want to know. It differs from person to person. But typically if I am meeting someone new I might possibly ask questions like "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you live with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of pals?"
Usually a person talks for a while when answering and that provides you more data to ask even more questions about. Sometimes I will make a remark if it is appropriate or if they ask me a question in answering to my question I just answer their question then ask them another one of my questions.
The tough times are when people merely give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't leave much to work off of.
When I think the situation is uncomfortable or the person isn't talking much (like the above "yes" and "no" replies), then I talk about how awkward the situation is. Tell something like "This is embarrassing. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to speak. Do you feel uneasy too?"
Usually you can get a little dialogue going on that topic and ease a lot of tension just by accepting that you feel awkward and don't know what to say. Then proceed to a question like "Ok, let's see what we can discuss. What are your pursuits? Do you have any hobbies?"
Another questioning method is to look at what a person puts their attention on and discuss or ask questions about that. So, for example, if you are in an eatery and the person you are dating isn't talking much, just going through the menu, you could possibly say "Kind of an interesting menu. What seems to be good to you?" That might encourage a conversation about food or restaurants and menus, etc.
This approach is also good for meeting strangers. If you are in a general store next to some one attractive who is staring at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are desirous about the lamb chops. Do you know a good way to prepare them, I've always wished to try them, but really don't know how to prepare them."
Remember also that you are not necessarily going to connect with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and try to get a decent dialogue going and it doesn't come about then this is probably not the best person for you.
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