Think You're Scared To Approach Or Meet Up With Women?

There is a simple thing that men can do to boost their confront on approaching women and meeting women.

If you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Instead of runing away from the scenario, lower the gradient.

How do you define gradients? Gradients are similar to steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top of the ladder on your first step, it's going to be impossible to accomplish, and you may fail. If you continue trying it repeatedly you will start building up a complex about failing, and soon not try any longer.

If you try to skip up five or six steps on your initial attempt, it will also be scary -- not necessarily impossible but scary. And the possibility is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will not be successful .

The right tactic is to take the initial step and then advance one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable way to climb a step ladder.

When I was a young guy I would see a girl I was fascinated by and thought I had to tell her how much I liked her straight away. Well that was leaping up too many steps on the ladder. I knew nothing about her.

The first step is a straightforward "Hi" along with a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, respond to the question, or make a comment about something which she has her attention on to continue the conversation. For instance, if you are in a book shop and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?

Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her prior to deciding that you like her.

Of course, there is a whole lot more to it, however these are good basics to begin with. If you are using gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.

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