Ways To Attract Females - Unclear Responses And Flirting

When we are discussing the subject of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".

I not long ago got asked the question: "Why do women flirt with you and when you flirt back they reject it? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was exciting and important enough to share.

First of all, women have different personalities. What is being pointed out here is a sort of personality, not all females in general. The personality type that generally does this kind of actions is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't actually want to jump in.

The best way to handle this personality type is when you see it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to talk. Let the girl flirt all she likes, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the association goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient gradually. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run away.

Problem is, however, people with the same or compatible personalities are likely to hang out together. So quite often you can get the opinion that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of persons who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different circumstances and perhaps you will notice different personality types and possibly one that is more appropriate for you.

Now having said that, let's view it from a different angle. Women in general enjoy flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get an acceptance, to check if they are looking good and are attractive, even when they are not fascinated with a man. They will flirt with a person they are only interested in being friends with.

One approach to get better control of these situations is to look at all the communication modes that a woman is applying to communicate - Like oral, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.

When a lady likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you through all of the communications channels. When she is just playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you realize a woman flirting with you, but she does not support the flirting by showing you she likes you over ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.

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